What does it mean to have your tongue in cheek?

To have your "tongue in cheek" means to say something that you don't actually mean, often to be humorous or ironic. It's a way of speaking sarcastically or playfully, using a tone of voice or body language that suggests you're not serious.

Here are some ways to think about it:

* Not literal: You're not actually putting your tongue in your cheek, of course. It's just an expression.

* Humorous intent: The goal is usually to make someone laugh or to highlight a humorous contradiction.

* Double meaning: The words themselves might be serious, but the context makes it clear that you're joking.

Examples:

* "I'm so excited to go to work tomorrow! I love my job!" (Said with a bored expression)

* "Yeah, I'm sure that's exactly what happened!" (Said with a raised eyebrow)

* "This weather is absolutely perfect for a picnic, wouldn't you agree?" (Said during a blizzard)

In each case, the speaker is being sarcastic and doesn't actually mean what they're saying. They're using a playful tone to convey their true feelings, which are the opposite of what they're expressing.