If it's playful or sarcastic:
* Being contrary: This implies a deliberate tendency to disagree or oppose, often playfully.
* Teasing: This is a playful way to annoy someone, often with a lighthearted intent.
* Irony: This is a statement that is meant to be understood as the opposite of what is literally said.
If it's more serious or argumentative:
* Contradicting: This is a direct disagreement, stating the opposite of what someone else has said.
* Disputing: This involves a more formal disagreement, potentially leading to an argument.
* Arguing: This is a more heated exchange where both parties are trying to convince the other of their point of view.
If it's unintentional:
* Misunderstanding: This could mean they simply didn't understand what you said or meant.
* Misinterpreting: This means they understood your words but drew a different conclusion.
The specific term you choose will depend on the specific situation and the intent behind the behavior.